LJI Reporter
Tashi Farmilo

In the heart of Aylmer, a unique initiative is bringing together people of all ages and cultures for
meaningful dialogue. On the first Wednesday of every month from 5:00 pm to 7:00 pm at the
Deschênes Community Centre, 55 Chemin Vanier, Rocking Chair Conversations invites
participants to gather around in a circle of rocking chairs for uplifting and meaningful
discussions. The initiative, which also welcomes donations of rocking chairs, was started by
local elder Judith Matheson, who has long believed in the power of community and the
importance of togetherness.

Matheson, a respected figure in the community, has dedicated her life to fostering connections
and addressing issues of chronic loneliness and isolation. Through her work, she has observed
the challenges posed by modern family structures and individualistic cultures, which she
believes contribute to the widespread feeling of disconnection. “We’re having challenges with
the modern human family as it is reinventing itself,” Matheson explains, highlighting the need for
open-mindedness and acceptance in today’s diverse society.

The Rocking Chair Conversations are more than just casual gatherings; they are part of a larger
vision leading up to National Grandparents Day on September 8th, when the community will
come together to celebrate elders and their wisdom. Matheson emphasizes the importance of
human connection, spirituality, and the balance between materialism and love in combating
loneliness. She also reflects on the changing role of organized religion in providing a sense of
community, noting that many people are now seeking alternative forms of spiritual connection.

At the essence of Matheson’s philosophy lies the transformative power of circle gatherings, a
practice she has nurtured for years. Drawing inspiration from Indigenous traditions and the
profound wisdom of elders, these circles offer sacred spaces for sharing, listening, and healing.
“Immersing oneself in a circle with a shared mission over time fosters a deep understanding and
resonance that emanates from the very core of our being,” she reflects.

As the initiative grows, Matheson envisions the circles becoming a beacon of hope and
inspiration, not just in Aylmer but across the country. “These gatherings are a melting pot of
wisdom, kindness, and diversity, where individuals of all ages and backgrounds unite to create a
stronger, more compassionate community,” she concludes, embodying the spirit of togetherness
that defines the Rocking Chair Conversations.

The Rocking Chair Conversations are a testament to Matheson’s belief in the transformative
power of community. With each gathering, participants are encouraged to share their stories,
listen to others, and find common ground. The conversations are a step toward building a more
connected, compassionate, and understanding society, one rocking chair at a time.

Photo: The Rocking Chair Conversations, hosted by local elder Judith Matheson, take place on ​
the first Wednesday of every month from 5:00 pm to 7:00 pm at the Deschênes Community
Centre, 55 Chemin Vanier. (TF) Photo: Tashi Farmilo