Photo by William Crooks
Three adoptive parents shared heartfelt stories of their journeys during an Adoption Awareness Month event at the Centre jeunesse de l’Estrie on Nov. 19
By William Crooks
Local Journalism Initiative
The Centre jeunesse de l’Estrie hosted a heartfelt event on Nov. 19 as part of Adoption Awareness Month, featuring testimonies from local adoptive parents. The gathering aimed to highlight the emotional and practical aspects of adoption while encouraging families to consider opening their hearts to children in need. Centre representatives emphasized the pressing demand for adoptive families in the region.
Held at the Centre’s Queen-Victoria Boulevard location, the event adopted an informal approach, prioritizing personal stories over formal presentations. “We wanted to create a space where adoptive families could share their journeys and inspire others,” said one representative.
Marie-Claude, a local parent, shared how her adoption journey began after infertility struggles. “At 33, after exhausting all options, I decided to pursue adoption through the mixed-bank system,” she said. She described the extensive support she received, including in-depth interviews with social workers. “These weren’t just about the logistics of adoption—they helped me understand my motivations for becoming a parent and reflect on my own upbringing. It was life-changing.”
Her experience culminated in adopting two children. “Meeting them was the most incredible moment of my life. They’re the greatest gifts I could have imagined,” she said, her voice brimming with emotion.
Pierre and Marc-André, a same-sex couple, also shared their story. “We’ve been together for 15 years, and about eight years ago, we knew adoption was the right path for us,” said Pierre. Legal and ethical considerations initially shaped their decision. “Gestational surrogacy wasn’t a clear option then, and adoption aligned with our values. We wanted to provide a loving home to a child in need,” Marc-André added.
The couple recounted the day they met their son. “He was less than a month old,” Pierre said. “Unlike pregnancy, adoption doesn’t give you months to prepare. It’s a decision made in your heart, but that moment of holding him for the first time was indescribable.”
For Pierre and Marc-André, the journey reinforced their belief in adoption as a profound way to build a family. “It’s a process that requires patience and reflection, but the rewards are beyond words,” Marc-André shared.
The representatives stressed the importance of community support for adoptive families and the ongoing need for more families to step forward. “There are significant needs in our region. We hope these stories inspire others to consider the commitment,” one noted.
Adoption Awareness Month events like this one shine a light on the transformative impact of adoption. The Centre jeunesse de l’Estrie continues to offer resources and guidance for those interested in embarking on this life-changing journey.
For families considering adoption, the Centre provides information sessions, workshops, and one-on-one consultations to help navigate the process and prepare for the responsibilities of parenthood.